Curated by I DON’T DO CLUBS + MUST LOVE BEARDS founder, Genese Jamilah

Looking for real-life places to meet ambitious, attractive, and successful Black men—outside the apps? This encyclopedia is your go-to guide.

Featuring 70+ event and lifestyle suggestions, this resource uncovers where successful Black men gather across all ages and all major American cities. From professional conferences and cultural festivals to social clubs, fitness spaces, travel experiences, and everyday lifestyle hotspots, this book offers curated, actionable ideas—not clichés.

Whether you're new to a city, tired of meeting the same people, or simply ready to be more intentional about your social life, this guide helps you show up in the right rooms—confidently and strategically.

This isn’t theory—it’s culture, community, and connection, thoughtfully curated by Genese Jamilah, founder of I DON’T DO CLUBS and MUST LOVE BEARDS.